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The MOST Challenging Aspect Of Over Reaction: Most Read

In Life, People Are Born With different Qualities and Nature. Nothing in Life totally bad and Nothing is totally good, Our Views and Reactions make it Worst Or Best. When You give People attention More than they deserve, You get Hurts More than You deserve, If you are NOT Careful you will Start Over Reacting. I do Respect People That take things the way it Comes. Eg I May ask Some one, Honey would You mind to visit me today. No Sorry Am too Busy. Alright, I take Her Word the way she said and work away. If She lieying is her business with God. But When doubt comes in Over Reaction is at Stake. OVER REACTION IN RELATIONSHIP: Most Of Our Broken Heart Issues today Come As a Result Of Over Reactions, Suspition Brings Over Reaction, Sometimes, We Over expect, we Over Visit,,,, We Love And Dominate, No Space, No allowance. Sometime You need to allow her to try something else and See and if Possible Compare, Call for You or Look for You When You are needed. It is great to feel wanted. T...

Those That Lives By Sword Will Surely Die By Sword: Hatred

Hatred is a strong emotional feelings Of dislikness Over Some one. This art exist with human long as we live on earth. It is describe as agreat weakness in people. Hatred have the power to create tragidy, It pulls down strong hold of happiness. And a major tool between enemies. It brings about wrong decision causing destruction & enjoyed tears, Sorrows, failures, defeat, Lost. It brings loneliness and regret at the end of tunnel. In Love, people promagate Jealousy and Such Jealousy always begeth hatred & division. In Our Places Of Worship hatred Pollutes Our Worship and hinders Our Prayers which render Our fellowship Meaningless. In Our Places Of Work hatred Make Life Very difficult to Cope with One another. In Our homes Our Innocent Kids Suffers alot when hatred creeps in between husband and wife. Here After Hatred Calls Judgement Of God On Us for the Scripture Say" Their is No space For a hater in the Kingdom Of God" People hate when they Observed that their ...

Never Act Like You Enjoy $£× with your husband.

She that hath ears, let her listeneth to what the prophetess sayeth. 1. If you go to your fiancé's house and his mom gives you food with four pieces of meat, eat only one and remain the other three. It is a trap/test. Simple home training should teach you that. And if it's gizzard, reject it. 2. If you visit your prospective fiancé and meet a pile of dirty clothes in his room, and plates not washed from last year and you leave without washing the clothes/plates, you have failed the test of being a wife material. 3. If you visit your fiancé's family house during Christmas and everyone is watching TV in the sitting room, don't sit with them. Enter the kitchen and find work to do. It is a trap. 4. If your fiancé takes you shopping and asks you to pick whatever you want, don't fall for that trap. Take toothpaste and one toothbrush. Your teeth is all that matters. It is a test to know if you're a gold digger or a home management woman. Kill him with your fr...

Cover Hair or Your Prayers Won't Be Answer By Sermons

It tickles me whenever I hear sermons that say 'God will not answer my prayers if my hair is not covered'. Truthfully, I once absorbed this teaching and doctrine. 2008 after my admission in school, I came home one day and saw my mom sprawled on the floor not moving. No one was home and while trying to call my dad and a neighbour, I sat by her and called out to her God. The last thing on my mind was a headtie or head covering. At that moment, her life was my concern. I groaned out to God and dared him to answer. (I love to dare God a lot. Lol. That's how we operate). He showed up. He heard me. And I knew that. I have been in various situations and I've called out to God and he heard me. And sincerely, he did not look at my hair covering or the lack of it, oh and I rarely cover my hair, to make matters worse I am on a lowcut (and I've been told I'm going against God's plan for a woman by cutting my hair). See, my God transcends these rules and inanities...

How Churches Losing Souls to The World and To Atheism, Agnosticism

I see many people going on and on about how the church is losing souls to the world and to atheism, agnosticism. These people blame it on availability of certain things on social media and what they term militant atheism. However, I believe more people are becoming irreligious because of the church itself. The church with her activities is driving many people away because by the time you finish spreading hate and fear and I step out and find that things are not actually how you have painted them, I'll walk away and I might never look back. So, let me give you a tip about converting people to Christianity. You know I am nice like that na. This tip is just this: "And I, if and only when I am lifted up above from the earth of most side God [on the cross], we will now draw all people to Myself only [#Gentiles, as well as the Lord @Jews].” #JOHN @12:32 AMP. This is the real answer to the problem. I mean, you'all try too much. For sure you are so preoccupied on telli...

Some Nigerian Churches and How They Confuse First Timers Just For Fun

Anglican Churches. They are sometimes so boring you would want to lie on the pew and sleep off. But when you meet the lively ones, you just have fun. Confusion sets in during the chanting of canticles. You will keep looking like, "oh damn! What am I gonna say now?" And if you are not from a hymn singing church, you will do a lot of moping. Catholic Churches. Boring as hell. If you are lucky to meet the choir's song, you will have fun. They sing well. Confusion sets in from the beginning to the end. The standing and sitting and then standing again. Then the Latin! You go confuse finally. If care is not taken, you go think na only reading them do, you no go know say Sermons don happen. Christ Embassy. Errmm these one. No dulling moments o. There is always singing and dancing and shouting. You will just love them. Confusion however sets in when the preaching starts and you see people dropping their shoes and their phones at the altar. No matter how much it fascin...

The Bible on Our Phones, Laptops and IPad Is Not The Real Bible

Please, if you know how I can reach Moses, the one who led the Israelites out of Egypt, inbox me. I need to get the original tablets of the Ten Commandments from him. You see, this brother just opened my eyes to some certain facts. He said the Bible on our phones, laptops and IPad is not the real real Bible. That it is an €vil strategy from the de€vil to make Christians lazy. How could we have reduced the Word of God to a game by making it an app? Tufiakwa. He asked everyone without a hard copy to stand. And keep standing. You are in Nigeria where your bible is tolerated that's why you won't read from your phone. Go to Iran and see if you won't change that topic. What is wrong with us? The one you called original bible now, used to be fake, because it was translated from Hebrew to English. Let's go back to Hebrew language if we want to be original. Me? I've taken this very personal. I'm not just going to stand. I'm leaving the meeting entirely. Plea...

Guard Your Head Don't Allow Pastors, Reverence or Prophets Touch It

Guard your head. Don't allow people touch it. Be them pastors, reverends or prophets. If you're not convinced in your heart, never submit yourself for laying of hands. Never! People transfer all sorts of rubbish from their lives, into the lives of others through that single means." This were my father's words, every morning to me. He also advised my siblings individually too. Then, every morning before our school bus arrived, Popsy will place his hands on our heads and pray for us. According to him there was nothing as strong as the prayers/blessings of a father on his kids. Despite the fact that we attended a christian primary school, where prayers, fasting, anointing services and bible study were part of the time table, we avoided queueing up with other kids for anointing. But one day, I and my nonsense sister Betty fell prey. Our proprietress invited our neighbour- Apostle Samson, who was then a General overseer of One Faith Ministries, to come to our schoo...

What I See Everywhere Are Single Fathers Why

My dear men, why are you becoming less and less virtuous? Why do you opt for divorce at every little offence? So many of these divorced men come up with excuses such as; my wife was cheating on me, she was v!iolent, she was this that and bla bla bla... so what? If you divorce her now, do you know the type of woman you would meet next? Remember a bird at hand is worth a million out there. Women are like babies, just pick anyone and manage her. Listen let me tell you infidels, Malachi 2:16 'I hate divorce' thus said the Lord of host. Even if your wife beats you up and cheats on you like you don't have a p€n!is, all you need do is go on your kneels and pray, cry onto the Lord in prayers, just keep fasting and also watch war room. Some of you are even lucky these women do not bring these men home, that's to show you she RESPECTS you. But, why should you complain about her che€ating if she still does her wifely duties? It is damn boring to keep eating egusi soup. We...

Stop Making People Slaves We Are All Going To Die

So you helped someone in life with one thing or the other and somehow you now demand ETERNAL gratitude from them? Because you helped someone with school fees, they have to call you twice a week with a vote of thanks. They also have to tell you every single thing about their academic lives. Like when a lecturer's wife gives birth, or when the VC fi!ghts with his wife? You help someone with part of the capital to start up his business and now you are like a shareholder. You stroll in and supervise and select who should be employed or not. You buy things and expect not to pay. Helper. Weh done. You invite your girl friend to a birthday where she finds a soul m@ate. Now, because she won't tell you his favorite drink and details of their relationship, you feel betrayed. Really? Oya listen. Help people and move on.Most people are ungrateful. They won't show a smidgen of gratitude. Yes. But what of the others who have really shown you how happy they are with your help? ...

Any Woman Who Has A Child Is Just a Mother

Many people momentarily make me sad but there is this kind that takes the crown. Sometimes we say share or post things with either good intentions or without knowing how ugly it is to others. I do that sometimes and If my intentions were right, I believe in my opinion and that's my stand... I'll stand by it but I'll present facts, examples even citations if need be and see if we can meet halfway. I can only get na@sty if you decide to atta*ck me as a person and affront me like one small tried to do in unfitting big girl p@nties on Sunday. Anyway, if I say or do something that annoys a multitude of people (which I've never done. Mostly it's misogynistic, narrow-minded, religious fanatics and shames who come after me and I can handle you on any day, trust me)... Let's go on, shall we? If I annoy multitudes, espe cially in a shaming way...the same thing you and I (if you do that) should do is (a)     Tuck our balls out of vicinity and apologize, (b)    (...

The Meek Shall Inherit The Earth Akpen Misfortune

"Akpen's misfortune was a resounding clap in all four walls of the earth. The day he was born his both parents died mysteriously. Coming to this world we pass through a tunnel (v@agina), going out of this world we pass through a tunnel (grave) so we already know much about life and death. Akpen grew up br£astfeeding himself, eating palm kernel and sipping left over garri in the processing mill. He was too poor that mosquitoes never sucked his blood at night cause they feared a drag of his blood will take him off the face of the earth like a blemish and his blood will be on their hands. Even the rats in his home never stole from him rather they joined forces with the king(the cat) to steal from the neighbors so Akpen could eat. 3 square meals to Akpen was such a luxury he could never afford through out his stay on earth. Women never loved him, that means he never got kissed. He had $e × severally but only in his dreams. He grew up a bush hunter but he never caught or k!l...

Episode Two The Preachers And Hym£n

While in the university my friends and I heard about this power-packed crusade that would be happening in one ministry. (For those who would think this is fiction, the ministry is located near Ezza Ezekuna Hall opposite Motherless Babies Home Abakaliki, Ebonyi State.) We attended the ministry and it was run by a prophetess. A single lady who once told MARRIED couples not to fast or come to her for prayers after doing that their "sinning" at night. Anyway the headlining preacher for the crusade was a visiting prophet whose poster showed him wearing military regalia. War Room kind of guy. Literally. The headlining artist for the three days was Chinyere Udoma. A renowned Eastern Gospel singer. Now the crusade started and it was power-packed as advertised. Breaking of bottles, calling out names and their owners' account balance, prophesies, and most importantly, sowing of seed. On the afternoon of the third day, members of the youth were called by the Sister to sow s...

How To Experience The True Beauty Of Marriage

A lot of people who go on about wanting a perfect husband or wife are quite miserable when they do get married because they want something that is just not possible; they want the kind of person that just doesn't exist. As long as you want to marry someone who has flesh and blood, you must accept that person as limited, flawed, and error prone! They will have to accept this same truth about you! Please know that you have to give your spouse room to be imperfect; it will reli eve you of so much stress and frustrations.  It doesn't mean issues should not be addressed and dealt with; but even when you have to do this, you must come from a place of love and understanding if you want issues to be resolved. It doesn't mean you should be walked all over. It doesn't mean that he or she should not work on improving themselves, particularly if it is damaging your relationship. It means that you acknowledge your own imperfections and weaknesses too! They may be genuinely tryi...

I had An Encounter With a Mad Man Today!

I was on my way to the Korean Cultural Centre to attend a programme in honour of World Poetry Day when I decided to make a stop at a road side ATM gallery to withdraw some money. This guy came close to me and began to mumble meaningless things so I ignored him. Then all of a sudden he began to shout at the top of his voice, cursing me out and thre€atening me: "I bind your spirit in Jesus name! I bind and cast you in Jesus name! You will remain like this in Jesus name!!" He said all this and more while prancing up and down.   Reasons I stopped believing in marriage  I was startled but refused to engage him. I just wanted to finish and leave. Everyone was just staring as though the guy and I had an unfinished business from before because he was not looking dishevelled or anything. I was a bit scared because he could have att@cked me and even harmed me. What this incidence reminded me of was my final year in pharmacy school where as part of my project, my supervisor w...

When Men Worsshipped God and Distraction

(1) It was those days when thie€ves wrote letters to owners of houses or people living in a street that they were coming to steal... One of those written to was a family in our fellowship, we belonged to a fellowship in the Catholic church then, she brought the letter to the fellowship and prayers went up... The day/week they promised to come passed and nothing happened. They received another letter in which the robbers accused them of raising their wall so high at night in the event of their coming, this happened more than once and the thieves never thre€atened them again. NB: these people had a low wall, we knew where they lived. It happened that the Spirit of God through prayers, raised this sister's wall so high at night that the thieves couldn't come in. They never raised their wall. (2) This elderly brother wasn't into lengthy prayers, he believed that all you had to do was tell God what you wanted in Jesus name, he would lay hands on the sick and depending...

Reasons I stopped believing in marriage

Somewhere along the line years ago, I stopped believing in marriage. It wasn't a shock. I have been indifferent about the whole institution since secondary school. It was a gradual process and one day, I realised it wasn't something I aspired to. It's all meh to me. Like meeting Trump. Whether or not it happens, it's just mehhhhhhh. My parents know this. They have accepted it. They'd rather pray about it than talk to me about it which is perfect as far as I'm concerned. As Christians, we are taught to choose God-fearing men. The preachers would scream that no matter how poor or ugly he is, if he fears God, go for him. We women fall for that line and marry the most Bible-quoting man they come across. They fail to understand that at the end of the day, a God-fearing man isn't necessarily a good man. Most women stuck in a he£llhole of a marriage are married to "God-fearing" men. One day, my friend Chioma had many encounters with god-fearing m...

Beautiful Way That Is Transforming Me and Helping Me L0ve Others

I was having one of my random chats with someone when he said I was looking happier these days. I smiled and told him that I am a woman in l0ve. He giggled and winked at me and although I understood what that wink meant, I acted like I didn't. I mean, I can't come and be assuming things and putting words in people's mouths na. When I kept a straight face and acted like I did not fully grasp why he had this mischievous look on his face, he went on to say, "so the boyfriend is treating you right na". I laughed and told him that when I said I am a woman in love, I wasn't talking about a boyfriend. This is not an entirely isolated incident. You see, most times when I write about love, people assume I am talking about am0rous, most times er0*tic relationships. However, in reality, I am not. I am talking about love. Everything that constitutes l0ve. A father's l0ve for his family. A mother's l0ve for her children. A child's l0ve for his/her parent...

Big Life Lessons Mum Has Inspired Me Through: Must Read

I learnt a very big lesson from my mother, she inspires me with the words of God which say "I can do all things through Christ that strengthen me.(Phil 4:13):" My mother is the sweetest gift of God to me, she made various sacrifices raising me, She was too selfless, humble and quite enterprising. I grew up having many people living with us on her bill, but she never complained about once. She gets up before daylight to prepare food for the family. She is hardworking, strong and industrious, she is generous to the poor and needy she always girds herself with strength for her God-given task.  When I was young, I lost my left hand but she stood beside me as a mother to take care of me always. Because of me, she wakes up as early as 5 am to collect bread at a bakery in order to sell it, and pay my school fees. Every morning on her way coming from the bakery, she buys me a sachet of tea from aboki to prepare my hot tea before going to school that day. She makes me feel happy...

Can We Just Let People Be People?

There's something I have noticed, maybe it's just human nature, but I find it a bit off. When people are upset about something, or going through stuff and they complain about it, maybe once, maybe repeatedly, some of us tend to tell them to stop complaining. Many of us want to be a judge of how people who are hur*ting or angry should express themselves. We want to govern the reaction to a grief and burden that isn't ours to bear. Truth is, sometimes we do not know why the person expresses himself or herself like this. We do not know what itches him or her. I've come to understand that people and situations are rarely entirely simplistic. And this definitely leads to differences in behavior, in perception, in understanding, in reaction. Can we just let people be people? Can we let them grieve their own way? They are not broken the way you are. Yet, no hur*t is better than the other. Your pain doesn't dwarf theirs and theirs shouldn't dwarf yours. It's...